” You have to choose to come out of the darkness “

Flying into the light
In becoming a true ” Butterfly ” you have to choose to come out of the darkness that we sometimes cast ourselves into.We go into dark places at different points in our lives.So of those dark journeys we take we deem as fun… adventurous…once in a lifetime encounters.However we can become ensnared in those dark situations. Not knowing how to liberate ourselves.Most times we give into the darkness that has become a cocoon of despair…depression…isolation . Any cocoon that we find ourselves in we must fight with everything we have to free ourselves. To fight to come into the light! We solely have the power to live in the light or drown in the darkness of life. It’s easier to stay where no effort is needed to change. change can be quite difficult. You as a ” Butterfly” have to decide which journey is more important.Whether you soar through the air into the light is solely your choice.

“Cutting the Rope of Our Self Imposed Albatrosses”

Most days we tend to be our own worst enemies. How funny it is to me that most will accept a criticism …unkind word… judgments easily. Yet it takes an act of congress to to believe the kindest words that are showered upon us. In becoming a true ” Butterfly” one must learn to cut the ropes of any types of bondage that we hold onto with a death like grip! Sure it’s easy to focus on all the flaws and shortcomings that we are cursed with because we are human. Why would you want to solely focus on the negative ? Being “Human” means a certain bliss. The bliss of discovering true enlightenment, growth,empowerment,and freedom on so many levels.You must aspire to become the best “you” . Not someone else’s best…But the best you that you have set the standard of . what does it truly matter if someone else does not approve of your lifestyle choices. Last that I checked unless you have multiply personalities there is only one reflection starring back at you in the looking glass . One person that when it’s all said and done opinion has any true value in the scheme of things. A ” Butterfly’s ” imperfections gives it strength…grace… tenacity.If you give your power to others they will gladly snatch it from your hands.Leaving you battered..self loathing… disgusted with yourself . ” Misery” loves what?…If you believe anything to the contrary then you are in the greatest mindset of denile that the universe holds.You have to fight like hell to stay unencumbered from life’s snares. You never again have to be your own road block ! If someone can not enrich your existence…give you knowledge…encourage….motivate you in a positive way. Cut them loose !You alone have the power to succeed or fail ….You and you alone !

Cutting those ropes !

Determination

“Determination” Is not something that we are born with. It is something that we have to fight like hell to obtain. Determination is hard as hell to maintain.You have to want to achieve whatever your goals are. Becoming a butterfly means that you will encounter a lot of difficult journeys that help transform you into a strong ,thriving “Butterfly” . Without determination it is impossible to transform yourself into anything good or bad.It’s easy to sit your ass on the couch and whine about how life sucks and you’re a failure because mamma didn’t love you enough….Daddy loved you to much in the wrong ways…..Your siblings were treated better than you…..kids at school beat the hell out of you as they endlessly taunted your existence.You got dumped….heart used as if it were a doormat at a convenient store . You have been let down …set up…thrown away…pushed off an emotional mountain.You have started things and quit before you completed it. You Have at times failed to keep your word…failed others….failed yourself !  Now it is time to stop the Bullshit and get determined to change your total existence .”Butterflies ” soar…dance on the wind’s breath. They do not sit around weeping about why their lives are not what they want them to be.Be the “Butterfly” that is determined to be who and what you want your life to be ! 

 

sometimes you have to take a stand in yourself !

Thinking about self !!!!!

“Becoming A Better Butterfly”

We all are “Butterflies” on one level or another.Some have been equipped with strong wings that can withstand life’s storms that at times rage out of control. Bringing with it the boisterous thunder that somehow invades our solitude…the quiet places that we keep … Continue reading →